Love. Its all about love. Always.
I sat with a friend recently who doesn’t know how incredible she is. Like, she’s amazing. So why doesn’t she see it?
I was her once. I spent years in a relationship that broke me down. I believed the worst things about myself because a partner, someone who was supposed to love me, made me believe I was less than worthy.
So I sat with this person I love, this amazing person who is strong, this person who has overcome so much, and I had trouble with the fact that she doesn’t see what I see.
She’s not the only one. I talk to so many fabulous women who downplay what they are, who they are.
What is so wrong about recognizing our worth? What is so wrong with saying, “I’m friggin awesome!”
I know I’m awesome. It took me too long to realize that though. Why?!
We need to build up our daughters, our sons, our sisters, our brothers. No. Not in an everyone gets a trophy kind of way, but in a way that we all know that we have value, even if we are flawed.
We are all imperfect, but those imperfections make us human.
I sat with someone last week who made me cry. She made me cry because of the things she saw in me, things I did not see in myself. And that was even with believing I knew my worth. I guess I didn’t because she saw things, said things, that shook me, in a good way.
We all need someone who sees those things in us. Yeah, so we should all be able to see those things in ourselves, but if we can’t, well, we need a reminder, a friend who will say, “hey, you’re incredible, and here are all of the reasons why.”
I can give every person I love a list of things that I love about them. A long list.
Its all about love. We go through life working, learning, trying to figure stuff out, but its about love, who we love, who loves us.
If you can’t figure out what it is that makes you lovable, ask someone who claims to love you. If they can’t tell you, run, like immediately, run, really really fast, and find someone else. Because you are worthy of love.
Love makes the world go round. It really does. If you don’t feel loved, something is wrong. If you don’t love the people in your life with all of your being, something is wrong.
We are all worthy of love, of being loved. Every single one of us. So go get it. Accept it. Own it. Demand it. And never apologize for it.
It is always about love.